Remembering the Person Beneath the Longing
After heartbreak, many of us ask, "How do I become myself again?" But perhaps healing doesn't ask us to invent a new identity. Perhaps it asks us to remember the person who was quietly waiting beneath fear, attachment, expectations, and every story that convinced us we had to become someone else.
The Myth of Soulmates
The soulmate myth promises that another person will finally make us whole. But what if what we're really searching for isn't a soulmate at all? What if we're searching for relief from loneliness?
Why Obsession Feels Like Destiny
Obsession rarely announces itself honestly. It arrives wearing the language of destiny, certainty, and meaning. But what if the story we've built has quietly become more powerful than reality itself?
Is This Love or Possession?
We often mistake intensity for love. But what if the deepest relationships are not the ones that consume us, but the ones that allow us to remain fully ourselves?
Love, Obsession & Ruin
Before we begin Wuthering Heights, let's ask a different question. Why does a novel written nearly two centuries ago still feel so deeply personal? Perhaps because it isn't only telling their story. It's telling ours.
Why Stories Reveal Us
Some books entertain us. Some books inform us. But every once in a while, a story does something stranger. It reveals something about us.
When Mercy Feels Severe
We often imagine mercy as comfort. But what if mercy is bigger than comfort? Reflecting on 1 Corinthians 5:5 forced me to wrestle with a difficult possibility: sometimes love is not trying to protect us from reality—it is trying to wake us up to it.
